What would it feel like to have the life you desire?

I’m not talking about a fantasy world, the one where you win 100 million dollars, or where your super rich dream date flies you around the world to exotic destinations (though that would be a fun fantasy.)

Instead what would make you feel great today?  Or would make you feel great, if in a couple weeks if your life now included that?

For some of you, you might already be having your dream life. Yeah!

For others that life can seem so far away that it doesn’t seem even worth trying for.

But, what if you could take steps, small steps, today to start creating that life today?

The first easy step (it only takes a few minutes to start.)

Write down what your daily life would be like, what would it feel like, if you were already there.

  • This first part isn’t where you put down would have (possessions, jobs, or relationships) but instead focus on how you feel and what you are doing.  Because how we feel and what we are doing is what we’ve decided those other things would give us.
  • Start with your morning. How would you feel?   When would you wake up? What would you do to start your day? What would you drink? What would you eat?

Take a couple minutes and write those down, because the answers might surprise you.

My answers surprised me when I did this.  The first two of my morning items, I could actually have right now.  I didn’t have to wait until I had anything else first.  And how cool is that to start having what you decided would be in your dream life now!

Let me know what you found out and what you can add into your life to start having your great life now.

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When Things are Going Well, Does Somethign Negative Happen?

Does it seem like when things are starting to go really well, something happens to stop it?

We’ve heard that this is an abundant universe and the universe gives us what we would like. We are told: You just have to ask for it. Ask for it to manifest, and then you will receive it.

Has that worked for you?

It has at times worked for many of us, so we know it works.  Well, it kind of works….

You may have also noticed that when things start going your way, often something “negative” happens.

That recently happened to me, right before last week’s webinar. With my favorite shirt – the one I wanted to wear on my video being washed – my washing machine broke, full of water, and full of wet clothes.

“I don’t have time for this! ” I thought – well actually yelled that in my head.

Has something like that happened to you?

How often do these “negative” type events happen? If the universe wants to help us and also gives us what we ask for, why would this continue to happen?

“Am I doing something wrong?” Most of us have thought at one time.

But…what if there were other energetic forces actually working in opposition to what we were trying to create?

So all the places you thought you were doing something wrong, that it was you creating these challenges, when it was energetic forces working in opposition to you, do you choose to remove and destroy everything you decided about you because of that?  Yes, I choose that.  Vaporize, Liquefy.

Removing these forces is one of the areas I change in my empowerment coaching.  If you have any questions on how to do this, let me know.

Can Listening to Music Clear Somethings that Usually Require Processing?

What if listening to music could also create the changes you were looking for?

Monday, I woke up with a unexpected desire to listen to the hard rock I listened to in high school. I haven't listened to that type of music for years. It took me a while, but put together a play list on Spotify with some of the best rocking songs I could remember. As I listened, I could feel it clearing and releasing things that were up in my reality.

What type of music has energy and power to you, that might help you release what you would like to release?

Let me know what music works for you?


It's now been a couple days....

It's been interesting listening to this music this week. I've been able to access and clear things from far in the past that weren't reached in other ways. And I've had an enjoyment with this music that previously I wouldn't listen to because it used to remind me of the limitations I had when I first listened to them years ago.

What clearing is possible by just moving your body?

Last night I was invited to join a friend at an ecstatic dance. If you don’t know what ecstatic dance is, well it isn’t quite as racy as it sounds. It’s an open, free form, dance party where everyone is invited to dance in the way they would like, in any way they choose. There isn’t any talking on the dance floor and most people dance by themselves for just the joy of dancing.

Once on the dance floor, I found myself slightly uncomfortable and feeling a bit out of place. These people were friendly and inviting, and I can dance, so I asked, “What is this and why am I feeling it?”

I noticed that, because I wasn’t fully “comfortable” in the space, I had been making myself small and my being was only partially filling my body. No wonder I was feeling uncomfortable. I was only partially there.

Have you ever done anything like that? Gone into a place where you didn’t fully feel comfortable and then you made yourself smaller so you wouldn’t stand out?

To quickly change this say, “I claim all my body’s space, I claim all the space my body occupies!” You can even go as far as claiming more or even all the space around you. After I did that, I started to have more fun dancing. Yeah! That was until I saw myself in the mirror.

Now I consider myself a pretty good dancer, I can even partner dance, but looking in the mirror I saw that I was pretty rigid, and even jerky in my dancing. I started hearing, “White boy can’t dance,” in my head. I wondered, why I am so rigid, so jerky? What things were making my body rigid? Were there energy blocks or physical blocks causing this?

I then got that my body needed to clear his blocks. I clear energetic blocks in my being every day, but I was getting that my body needed to clear blocks in body ways. So I shook my body by dancing, jumping around, moving my arms, hands, feet and legs. I also asked for universal energies to move through my body, my joints, and clear out any and all stuck and stagnate energies.

What things have you been clearing or trying to clear mentally or with energy work, that your body needs to clear in her or his own way with movement? What energetic blocks have we thought needed to be cleared with energetic clearings that actually could be cleared easier with body movements?

Now it doesn’t have to be dancing that clears body blocks, so what stepping, jumping, skipping, twisting, stretching or other moving would your body like to do that would also clear what you or your body have been trying to change and clear?

What if you could have fun moving your body and clearing at the same time?

Let me know how it goes.


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